When a guy predominantly texts about sex and very little else, it makes a girl wonder. Is sex all you seek? It clearly seems that way. If you’ve engaged him in sexual conversations or text messages before, it’s hard to take it back. Guys don’t like the rules to change in the middle of the game. If he’s texting you about sex, I’m assuming you actually participated in it at some point. If you didn’t and he still does, get rid of him.
First, no one goes out to not have sex. It is normal. However, it is not very normal to text a woman about it all the time. She does it because you have allowed it. Most guys will at least try to go there. They often do this as a qualification process. They want to know if the woman they are talking to is relationship or affair material. The women who engage in this sexting and do not set limits are the ones that are generally categorized as an affair.
If you did it all for fun, but now you regret it and want to turn it around, there are several ways to do it. The first way is more of a tailgate type. You can try this before tackling it. When he texts you about sex, just don’t text back or when you do, change the subject. No explanation needed. Trust me, he knows what he’s doing wrong. He should slow down after a few attempts that are not reciprocated. He should take the hint.
Ah, but a lot of men just don’t take the hint and you’ll have to be more direct about it. The first thing you can answer is “Is it normal for you to talk about sex all the time with women?” This will make you evaluate. He also calls him in a non-blaming way. You’re just asking a question. How will you respond? If he says yes, then it looks like a douche bag. If she says no, the door is now open for you to ask, “Then why are you doing it to me?” If he answers with a lame reason, just return it, “Oh,” or don’t answer at all.
It’s up to you to get him out of this and establish himself outside of the adventure category. If he stops texting, you have your answer. He just wanted sex. I’d be willing to bet you’ll get an apology from him if you handle this right, let alone get out of the adventure zone.
