Attractive women hold a very high social status. It’s rare that you find them alone, whether it’s with their “guy” friends or their sister, coworkers, brother, whatever. Very rarely will you find them alone. They travel in groups and if you see her alone, rest assured that she is waiting for someone.
These are what you call OBSTACLES and you must learn to overcome them if you are going to collect the dimes. Say it with me…”I have to learn how to do this…PERIOD!” Now take a load off your shoulders, it’s not that hard and it can be a lot of fun and as soon as you learn this you will never forget it and your friends will envy you for knowing how to win a woman over.
This is how this is done:
Let’s say you go out and see the girl you like with her acquaintances. What you’re going to do is go and talk to her friend or friends and act completely uninterested in the girl you really want. You have to disarm and overcome the obstacle or obstacles first before going after the main objective. If this is done correctly, the obstacles will now become your biggest cheerleaders in the next step.
Once you’ve created a good report with the obstacle(s), just gently say, “Hey, do you mind if I borrow your friend for a minute because I feel like I’ve been neglecting her?” That’s when you take her to one side of her and work your magic from there.
This is a non-direct approach to how to pick up a woman and it works well because you’ll be less nervous since your initial focus is on someone you’re not interested in anyway. Go out and do this and you can thank me later. Come on!
