Are you American or European traveling to Thailand on vacation? Would you like to meet and date a beautiful girl while you are here? It’s very easy to do this without knowing the girl before coming to Thailand, although it helps if you exchange photos or talk to her online first. Using a Thai dating site is usually the best and fastest option to meet Thai women and get rolling before landing in Bangkok.

If you don’t have time to meet a Thai girl online before traveling to Thailand, all is not lost and it is still easy to meet beautiful Thai women. And I’m not talking about paying money to “professional” bar girls either. Leave that to the fat old men. If you’re even remotely handsome and dress at least a little nicely, it’s easy to meet real Thai women who want to date you.

The first secret is what I just hinted at. You have to dress for success! I often see the western hippy traveler with dreadlocks and a 3-day beard. This could work for them and maybe they’re not looking for a legit Thai girl to hang out with… But if you are, you might want to pack some nice pants and some dress shirts to go out with while you’re out on the town. This applies not only to meeting women in Bangkok, but also to meeting women in Chiang Rai, Chiang Mai, Phuket, Lampang, and all towns and cities in between.

Thai ladies are attracted to people with status and authority. Note that I am not saying that they are attracted to money. This is a false accusation portrayed by sex tourists. Real Thai women don’t necessarily care much if you are rich or just a normal guy. The key is that they want a man they can respect. And apparently a respectful man, you are already halfway there!

The next thing is to find out where you can find available women. Obviously, you can meet them anywhere! But if you’re short on time, you can often find girls who are easy to approach in bars and clubs that are all over the country. It also helps if you’ve had a few Leo beers to build up your courage. But keep in mind that there are legitimate and “working” girls here. The key is being able to figure out who is who. I will tell you how you can easily spot real Thai women in a future post.

The bottom line: when you come to Thailand, be prepared to meet many beautiful Thai ladies who honestly want to be your girlfriend. Enjoy the trip!