Imagine that you are aware of some secret words that can trigger the most intimate passions of a woman. And just by sprinkling those words in sentences here and there you could make her want you as the man of her dreams, overcoming all barriers on things like appearance, age, social status, or wealth.
Sound like a miracle? Is not. Let me give you the secret and then I will show you how to use it.
Every woman has certain internal values by which she will judge a man. They are the criteria you use to decide whether you will surrender or resist someone better.
These values are emotional and deeply buried. They are a mixture of all those dreams and fantasies of her ideal man that she began to put together since she was a teenager.
They are made up of images, sounds and feelings, and grouped by specific “labels”: words like “trust, sensitivity, affection, togetherness, fun, adventurous”, and so on.
The important thing is that each woman has an emotional relationship with “her” particular words. Therefore, “sensitivity” is not necessarily the same as “being sensitive”; “Courage” is not necessarily the same as “being brave.”
Now this is the point. When you discover her particular emotionally charged words, and use those same words as labels to describe YOU, she will begin to see you as the man she has been longing for.
It is logical, because you will be taking advantage of their most intimate emotions. And these will always override any logical, deliberate and reasoned thinking.
So how do you find out their particular words? Simple. Get into a close relationship with her and then ask her.
Let me give you a specific question. Then we will see how you can use it and what you need to make sure you do when you ask for it.
Focus intensely on her and say, “What kinds of qualities do you value most in a man?”
Now, he will most likely give you three or four different things: words like caring, thoughtful, passionate, sincere.
Or he can give you a phrase: “I think it is very important for a man to be CAREFUL and THINKING. And I really like a PASSIONATE and SINCERE man.”
Now you have them. These are your criteria or values. You should make a mental note of the EXACT words you use, and preferably the order in which you use them.
Treat them like gold. They are the keys that will totally unlock your affections. And they will be like music to your ears, because they are YOUR words, YOUR hot spots.
Next step: how do you use them? Simple. Say them as words to describe yourself.
You have to get a little creative here because you can’t start slapping him on the head with them. Use them one at a time, and preferably in YOUR order.
Take the first one: BEWARE. Maybe you could put it in a sentence where, maybe, you were quoting someone else who was describing you.
“You know, yesterday I was having a heartfelt conversation with one of the girls at work over coffee, and she really made me think of myself when, out of nowhere, she told me that she thought I was a very LOVING person … . “
The same with the others. “I got a letter from my mother yesterday, she’s such a THOUGHTFUL person. I guess it’s something she instilled in me as a child … I did this quiz in a magazine the other day, and you know what? She said I’m a very PASSIONATE person. … You know, I can’t stand fake people. For me, being SINCERE with others is a really important quality … “
You will find that she soon begins to melt in your arms because you are returning her exact values to her. And this will start to happen much sooner than you think.
She won’t be able to help with this. You will unlock all those dreams she ever had about the handsome prince by dragging her. And when you feel like those deep emotional triggers are working for you, you’ll soon pass out.
Here are some important tips.
When you return the words to her, be subtle. Don’t start including them in your sentences right away, otherwise they might get suspicious. Give them back later, after you’ve been through multiple subject changes, or even wait until your next date.
And don’t use them all in one sentence. Apply one here and there when appropriate. Above all, don’t start pitching them like you’re making an election speech. Include them in a discreet and indirect way so that they are encouraged to take them as clues.
And please make sure you’re on the same page, both when you ask her the question and when you give her the words. It is not good if you are still in the flirting stage because you are dealing with emotional things here. So if you’re still joking, quit for now.
Above all, don’t underestimate the value of this until you give it a try and see how fast and effective it can be.
